Dear Customer,
We’re sorry that the doll did not meet your expectations. The doll is indeed quite heavy, but we have listed its weight clearly on our website. Unlike a real person who can balance themselves, the doll does not, so moving it will feel heavier. Standing the doll requires some technique — finding the balance point is important. You can try having the doll lean against some support to help it stand.
This is an entry-level doll, designed to help you understand whether you truly like dolls.
If you want a lighter and more realistic doll, you may consider silicone dolls. FANREAL Doll, IDO Doll, and TOP-CY Doll are all great options.